Hello there EJp,

Not so easy to answer this one. It is an individual thing, some women like nice guys, some women like bad guys ..... :0)
I personally like someone who will catch the fish, clean it and cook it! Now that would be a nice guy.
Ok seriously, there is no ideal mate. I am reading a book called 'Why men don't listen and women can't read maps." Read it, you will understand that we are 2 different species and it is a miracle that we are not at war all the time.
Keep searching.....