Thanks for the article. It's really good. I wouldn't do this again, but I told my boyfriend before we even met (we talked on the phone first, introduced by a mutual friend) that I have OCD and panic disorder. He was very understanding and accepting. Not everyone would be. So, why wouldn't I tell the next guy on the first date or before? My boyfriend has told me, after having lived through my OCD and panicky issues, that he wouldn't go back out with someone like me, knowing how difficult it can be.