Thank you for your posts...I feel that one of the hardest things to deal with right now is having put my hopes on a relationship that I thought was going to be perfect for me and was actually going to help me rebuild my life. The last post separation relationship I referred to in my post looked perfect to the outside. It looked like a match made in heaven, but it turned into a total hell and I am aware we each had our big 50% in the mess. He moved on, and that hurt me more because now I'm facing the reality of having divorced my ex and having tried to rebuild without any success. Has any of you gone through something similar? How do you recover? I truly appreciate your comments and help. This is a great forum.