i live in the UK, so we dont celebrate thanksgiving. but from what i am aware of it is all about realising what you positives you have in life and cherishing them. you have a family, and someone who you love. yeah, they may be causing you alot of your troubles, so have you considered telling this person? maybe they dont realise the damage they are causing, but if you were to sit down with them and let them see hwo you are hurting, they will want to change their ways to make you a happier person.

take it easy over this thanksgiving period and enjoy the moments you spend with your loved ones.

take care and i will hopefully speak soon

simon