Yes. I was terribly hurt 3 years ago, and I thought I would be well past it by now, all on my feet, having a great time. I cannot imagine allowing myself to be vulnerable enough to be in a relationship with a man, but what's worse, I am having trouble developing sustaining relationships with women friends. It keeps me in my comfort zone to stay home alone; I am never bored. But I am not having a very good time, either.