Being bored is a big red flag to me. I would not marry Jane because you feel bored. I married my first ex H despite having already felt bored and it led to nowhere. Boredom is a no-no. Especially in your case if you feel bored with her despite doing pretty non-boring and almost extreme sports with her and still bored? Don't make that move.

Plus, it is your life, so the expectations of others, including your father, should take a back seat.