Hamster, thanks for the response.

I'm curious - and if you don't mind me asking - about the details of your first ex-husband? What was being "bored" like for you?

For me, as an example, when I go over to her apartment (which is often, 3-4 nights a week) I don't really have excitement going to see her. I don't really look forward to meeting up, even if we haven't seen each other in a couple of days. It's more like doing laundry or showering. Its just something you do. Is this normal? Methinks not...