I think that's true for most people, but I usually end up with a really great enemy. Besides, i can't immediately switch off feelings and become "just a friend" like other people apparently can. How can you be friends with someone you have feelings for? What if they start dating someone else? I mean, every time I like someone, they say that they have no desire for a relationship, yet a week later, they're already dating someone else. I'm tired of letting people do that to me. And no one understands that I need time to get over feelings so I can have a healthy friendship with someone and they get mad when I can't just switch off my feelings.

Alright, I get it! I'm not supposed to have feelings for anyone!

How do I just get over him and move on to NOT LIKING ANYONE EVER. That's what I want most out of my only available options: being alone and being angry because I'm extremely sexually repressed and STILL liking people, or being alone and over all of this!

Maybe I should ask how I can get over my values so I can just have random sex and finally relax?