I'm not complaining about that comment by any means, I was really wondering if that's something that a guy would say in a serious relationship and how true it is. Or if that's normal. I'm 30 he's almost 30, we're fairly mature adults not teenagers. The thought of marriage does not scare me off, nor does the topic. I couldn't really type everything I was going to say that have more details cause be came home from work just before I was done. We do live together, and have both been in crappy relationships so we know the basics when it comes down to what we expect from the other and things that we won't tolerate, equally on the same page. My question was more along the lines of affirmative confirmation to how he really feels about where were headed in the future.