I do also agree that it is not ok to verbally abuse someone; I'm just saying that because I've been so verbally abusive to people, and while I'm grateful that they have forgiven me, I'm not so sure that I would forgive them as easily. I do agree with respecting boundaries, tho, and not challenging a person's Dx, and the part about just "flipping a switch." I don't want special treatment--I just want people to treat me the way they would want me to treat them.

p.s. I am not bipolar--but I do have borderline personality disorder. I have been extremely abusive to people. I've read a lot about this disorder and some of it is to families of BPD's. It is suggested that people be understanding, but to also set up boundaries---and not to be afraid to take some time out. Actually, I feel that it helps me when others put up boundaries with me. My family doesn't know that I have BPD, but some of my family members know that I have somethhing going on that I struggle with, and while they are very forgiving, they do set up boundaries with me--and that actually helps me keep myself in check.