I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and we have 2 children together. I am easy going, easy to get along with, not perfect by any means, but relationship-wise I am committed 100%. I know he loves me, but I also know that he does not share the same values/morality as I. I have been dealing with his 'incidents/episodes' for 4 years. He has issues with talking to other women, texting, emailing, calling, and I have confronted and communicated my feelings and views on cheating even if it is not the physical state of sexual intercourse. Of course he feels that he is doing nothing wrong, unless I was displaying his behaviors then it would be wrong and inappropriate of me to do such. I am beyond the last straw, last chance with him. I am constantly checking his phone in his presence and secretively. This morning I checked his phone and on his internet history I found searches that were unsettling to me. The searches were 'i -blanked- my ex wife, i -blanked- my daughters boyfriend, i -blanked- my daughters best friend', and the worst was 'i -blanked- my little girl'. When I went to the sites he viewed he went to a story of an 18 year girl and her daddy. There was a couple of these stories viewed and then the next one was a google search for spy cameras. Now obviously I feel I should be alarmed, but I am so passive and dismissing, I want to be sure I'm not overreacting. I have teen daughters and he has adopted daughters. I would NEVER think he would or could do something like this, but with a real search into pricing spy equipment I am fearful that this is not just a curiousity. I know I should ask him about it. But I also fear, that maybe I should wait and see what else he may 'be interested in'. Do I photograph these searches to ensure daughters (his and mine) are protected legally in case something does or has occurred. My teens are rarely home and are never alone with him. But I do not know where his interest or curiosity may lay. Constructive advice or questions only please. Thank you