Hi Gencat,
I have a problem with the way your doc (and many others) think. Mostly Lacaanian psychoanalysts insist on this concept of "enjoyment" in suffering: you choose not to change situations that keep you in suffering because you have enjoyment when suffering and showing others you are suffering. They rush to conclude this. I find this simplistic and very fare away from the experience of real people. Psychoanalysts are used to interpreting our behaviors, but their theoretical framework has many holes, in my opinion