Tomorrow (July 3) is my 20th birthday and I feel like a total loser. I don't have my driver's license, I've never had a job, and I've never been in a relationship/hooked up/or even been in a situation where that could have happened.

Intelligently, I understand why I haven't done these things. I don't have my license because I'm scared of driving, I've never had a job because I'm in college and mooching off of my "family", I've never been with a guy because I'm scared of talking to men, haven't found the right one, and I'm unattractive enough that boys used to dare each other to ask me out. But even though I understand it, I still feel left behind. I got to watch all of my friends go through these major life milestones. When's it my turn?