Well, Snow, this does not sound good. My husband has always been one to get in the car at the drop of a hat and go. He doesn't always tell me he is going, he rarely knows where he will end up or when he will be home. When he gets home he tells me where he went, what he saw, and often brings me a little present. If he came home very late and drove and extra 90 miles in one day it would not phase me a bit. But, this is unusual behavior for your husband. It also seems a little strange that he does not want you to call him anymore. I hate to say it but I would be suspicious. I would confront him and point blank ask him what he is up to. You may not like the answer but at least you will know where he stands. Good luck and let us know what happens.