NO no no .. you were not rude , not at all

I think the reason I feel the way I do is pretty simple .... I have had to walk on eggshells around some people that use to be in my life and it was very unhealthy for me. I don't want anyone that are around me to feel they need to do that for me. I guess these are boundaries I set for myself, This keeps me accountable for taking care of myself and keep working on the coping skills and all the other tools I use.