I strongly agree with High Treason. Sometimes I think about having another one-night stand or two because I keep getting told I am nowhere near ready for a long term relationship. If I decide to, I'll use condoms with one-nighters. But with a long-term partner, I NEVER wanna use condoms. I want the full feeling to maximize the pleasure for us both. I'm STI-free, and as long as my partner would get tested and have her doctor show me the results, I can be safe going condomless.

I can't stand condom preaching. I'm sterile and my plans for when to use condoms & when not to are done deals. As for different sexual activities, they don't have to go exactly as I've been imagining them. After all, I just had a discussion on my own thread and I kinda felt hopeless for a couple hours because I just can't find any prospective LTR partners.