Since he has no home for his kids, then he has to respect the hostess rules....He's mad at his mom because his mom is a clean person and doesn't go along with kids make mess, now he brings that to my home.....Plus he doesn't pay for my mortgage and bills while he's using them every day.....
So don't judge me.....as long as he and his kids are under my roof, they have to follow my rules and I'm not letting them to walk all over me!
That's my choice and decision to go further with him or not....He has a big baggage and he has to be nice as I'm a good provider and intelligent woman and I will be a plus to his and his kids life.....I don't have to pay the price for his bad choice and his wife who cheated on him!
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Originally Posted by ~Christina
Your relationship with him is fairly new, 5 months is not very long in reality.
Whether his kids behaved perfectly or not really isn't the biggest problem that I see.... His Kids should come first if your insisting he list who is first in his life. They are young kids they will be loud and messy even when well behaved. Yes ground rules are needed and you and him should decide "together" what the rules are, not just what you think, because that just isn't fair to him nor the kids.
"You" choose to date a man that has children.. If you really can't handle the noise and the who comes first and can't accept the kids and be a good person in there lives then ... Maybe you shouldn't continue seeing him.
Good luck with your decision
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