I'm sorry it's a rough time and I don't have really specific advice there - just impressed that you keep going and are going to your job.

There are lots of things you can do to live on less ( I live on barely anything really) and lots of services in some cities if you are broke - like a food bank. For pets, at one time when i couldn't afford vet visits, shots, etc. i looked into services for pets of low income people. there are some depending on your area. my cats actually got fully sponsored for their initial shots! at the least, there is the care credit card (you can google it) which is for health care stuff and you can pay off a certain amy each month.