Don't feel bad. I turn 30 July 28th. I'm still a virgin. Yep. I said it. It's out there. Yep. Now I'm embarrassed. Can't believe I put that out in public. Thankfully this isn't fakebook.
I know about the self image thing too. The self worth thing is pretty low with me too. Self esteem is in the trashcan too. But I try not to let it get me down. Even with my faults, my inexperience I don't think of myself as a loser, and you shouldn't either. Just my 2 cents.