Your job is anything you've assumed responsibility for. I have a friend who bemoans being unemployed for 7 years now, and I always point out to him that people pay him for his artwork. Granted, on an hourly basis he's not making anything like a living wage, but there is something he does that has value to other people that they choose to show with money. If you're into music, consider busking (if you're a performer). Again, you may not make a lot of money, but there will be something you do that people show their appreciation for. If no one will hire you, make it your job to improve the atmosphere of a certain place in town 15 hours a week or so.

I love being able to hear the flautist at the train station, and I pay him on my weekly trips through. I used to love coming out of a movie theatre to be greeted with live violins (people on dates at the movies like to make romantic gestures. Be a romantic gesture in the making, perhaps.)

Having said all that, sweetie, I think you're doing ok. You don't need a job right now, so having no job is better than having a crap job you don't love. A driver's license is convenient, but not essential - I'm 37 and have never had one. Granted, I prefer to stick to urban centers, but the lack is sometimes annoying but never a serious hardship. If you want to start driving, try practicing in the dead of night when there are fewer cars around, especially if you can get out to a rural area. And guys...well, I think many people are still in that position at 20, and I think that's ok. I'm sure you're prettier than you think you are, but, well, sometimes it's slow, hard going finding the right relationship. I'm sure you could get random hookups if you just wanted that...and I'm also sure that your life won't actually be missing anything if you decide not to.