I got so excited when I first heard about okcupid. Such a legit site, I mean you browse girls (well for me) and then are able to message them. How can this not go right? Well, I suppose I just got my hopes up. Only about 5 percent of the time you get a response, and if even, that response usually goes nowhere. Although, finally out of sheer miracle, I get bites from three lovely ladies, all of whom seem interested in me. Like messaging back and forth and them telling me we should hang out. Like really, I was even at the point where I was upset about having to choose! I was sooo close. But then... I got dropped.
By this I mean, they just stopped showing interest, stopped replying, and just disappeared, as if we had never even met. Who knows what happened, maybe they found another guy, started to find me boring, or maybe just aren't at their computer that much. Yeah... probably not that last one though, because I see they are online all the time. And now things just seem hopeless. I really wanted this to be the summer I got to meet a cool girl, after a completely void college love life. With one girl who actually gave me her number, the text convos have just become cold and brief, and she has stopped talking about hanging out, the other girl just tells me she is busy, if I can even GET a response from her, and the other girl just flat out stopped replying to me. That last part really upsets me. I really was looking forward to meeting her. So I'm already sending desperate messages to her, asking if I can get her number, when she is free, and now I think I'm going to send a third message asking if we are still going to hang out. How do I even send her another message without seeming desperate?? I'm seriously pretty upset about this. :/