Hello again,

As some of you are aware, my partner and I broke up about a month or so ago.

She told me she is tired of being in a parent child relationship. I was the child in that relationship because I had no job or any of my own friends. I even lost my car at some point lol.

Anyway, we broke up a few times during that relationship only to get back together, and sure enough, we are sort of together again because we are having regular intercourse, and that started a few weeks ago during a chance meeting.

Anyway, while i am allowed to 'date' her, she has made it clear that we are not emotionally intimate anymore, and that this is not a relationship. We're barely even friends anymore, because we don't socialise much, but we do like each other in a general sense. If it were up to me anyway we would still be together. She doesn't feel the same way, obviously.

While we were together in a proper relationship she would hold me during before or after sex and I would nuzzle at her breast. I used to call it suckling, but that is kind of a misnomer.

However in our new 'relationship' .. . . i have not been able to suckle successfully.

There just doesn't seem to be an opportune moment for it. The reason for that is that we are not emotionally intimate, and therefore there doesn't seem to be an opening where I can sort of lower myself in the bed, cuddle up to her and rest my head against her breast, which I find comforting.

I am at the point where I have to make a decision.

1. I want to ask her, but i worry that this would be awkward and that she will be turned off by my asking her for things rather than just being in the moment

2. I will attempt to suckle and hope she goes with it.

What would be your suggest method of attack here?

Regards,

IT.