((( LMo )))
Yikes. Yikes. Yikes.
I'm sorry.
I don't have any words of wisdom or advice as I can see you are already doing everything you can as far as a support system.
I did notice this though...
He can't get it together, it seems. I KNOW that it isn't his fault
But to some degree, in my opinion, it is.
If I mess with my meds, I'm making that choice.
I am choosing to "not" get it together.( however irrational)
I KNOW it is my fault when I make that choice. And for whatever self-destructive reason I choose to do it for, I still know the consequences of my actions.
You are right when you say he needs to take responsibility for his responsibilities.
Your piece of mind is one of them.