The touching issue: You are irritated because you want the affection on your terms. Touch him more and give him affection. Stroke his thumb or hold his hand. He wants that from you.

The woman issue: He's lonely because he feels like you never have time for him. This is an old friend he feels comfortable talking to about his problems with you. As for not introducing you, have you talked to him about that? My current BF doesn't think to introduce me because all of his friends already know me, even if they haven't met me.

Relationships are hard. MAKE some time to sit down together and air grievances, then make love in every room of the house.