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Originally Posted by growlithing
lol no I was just writing stuff at 3:30am and I think I had some sort of train of thought on that subject and didn't fully articulate it. Sorry about that...
No, I don't think I'm giving a "do not approach" vibe in the sense that I seem mean or grumpy. I might come off as very uninterested because I do tend to hide all of my feelings and when I do try and be "flirty", I either come off too strong or just so awkward that I'm not sure anyone can tell that I'm attempting to hit on them. I need to work on being subtle without being too subtle.
I know of dating sites, I'm just scared of them. You never really know who you're talking to..... but I guess that's just like real life.
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Yeah... just relax and see what happens. You can always suggest coffee or pizza or something you think might be interesting just to hang out.
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I'm scared of men because I'm scared of falling for them and being rejected. I don't necessarily want to be used.
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Growlithing... we all have that on our minds. At least those of us who aren't just trying to score. Some guy/girls are easy to fall for. Most aren't. Use your best judgment. Try to err on the side of caution. It isn't life and death although at this point it may seem like it.
Ok... I'm still going to suggest working on those viable excuses. We can't go through life coming up with new viable excuses, wouldn't you agree? That is more or less what I meant by seizing the day. Don't forget to live life while you are working on these other thing.
There's a lot more to life than the things you are focused on ATM. Those things should just be part of the plan.
And finally in reply to your first reply... I'm not saying any of this is easy except maybe the living life part. We aren't going to be helpful if by being helpful you hope we might have some magic formula that instantly transforms your life
