I checked his phone this morning and it was clear of all history, imagine that. I know snooping is not healthy, but he drove me to this. I do it in front of him. He knows he can't be fully trusted. He could be a good man, he just uses the excuse 'it's hard'. I will speak to him again about my concerns, I know he will dismiss it or talk it away. I appreciate the feedback you all have given me. I'm sure I will be back for more advice. Thank you.