This has been interesting, you say your a loser, but you have just held a interesting conversation with a bunch of people you never met, not many loser,s can do that . I get where your coming from on the guy front , you have got it but just not got it right. You no when you get dumped and people say (plenty more fish in the sea) MAYBE but who wants to screw a barracuda , //just thrown that in for a laugh. Feel more confident with yourself, have a look at your cloths, hair , and make up see if you need a little upgrade to bring out your best. Hey when I was in my 20-30 manic stage there wasn't any ugly girls just some a bit better looking, so you would have come on my screwing radar, DONT PUT YOURSELF DOWN