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Originally Posted by TreeintheWind
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Phreak-husband doesn't want to go for counseling because as far as he is concerned i am the one with mental problems.
But thank you.
Just taking it a day at a time. One day it will probably come out. And i do verbalize well, am rather capable of getting my point out without being hurtful. So, when that day comes, i will handle it as well as possible. |
You could try turning it around. Tell him he's right, but you need his help so that you can improve yourself to help make him more satisfied with you.
Clearly it's not you, it's both of you, but guys like being needed. Also you're luring him under the guise of sorting yourself out to make him happier.
I guess it's true about people with BPD we do know how to manipulate
(I have BPD)
Ultinately you can only bang your head against a wall so much before getting bored and giving up
- just wish you luck with it.