Yep. This sounds like OKCupid alright. Go through the trouble to write thoughtful messages and never get replies. Actually during the time I was using it, I got 2 responses, total. One was a woman who was very nice but wrote back to say she had moved out of the country but wrote a long detailed reply anyway. The other was a woman who had a chip on her shoulder and wanted to have some argument over OKCupid messaging for some reason...

Needless to say, I never had luck on that site.

I have had luck on another online dating site in the past. mainly because it had instant chat and I could go in and just say hello to a woman who happened to be online and just start chatting right at that moment. OKCupid needs that. It greatly increases the chances of meeting someone.

But there is one rule I developed for online dating that will serve you well: If she does not want to meet for an actual date within one week, just stop wasting your time. There are a lot of people on there who are just playing the site as a game. Dating, forming a real connection with someone, takes being in the same room with them. If she is not interested in actually meeting up with you as soon as possible, she's really not serious. Move on to someone else and don't waste your time.