CE - It would seem as though I sort of like non-performing hair from your picture and description.
I have never had an urge to change the way the therapist looks. Actually I don't think I have had an urge to change how anyone looks or dresses. As long as I don't have to dress any given way I don't like, why would I care about imposing my likes on what others do? Of course, I still dress in khaki pants and oxford shirts most of the time, so it is also not like I am the height of fashion in any sense of the word. And I have thin, underachieving hair that is cut very short.