I hear ya. "At least I'm not an ahole like them" (which my t basically said this week - "somehow you escaped turning out like them, which is unusual" - and he emphasized that he actually knows, since he met the mother once) - anyway, while that is a comfort, like someone else said here on pc, now they're out celebrating their ahole selves and we're all alone. But it was worse being with them. This could be temporary, but at least it's not painfully wrong.