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Originally Posted by Gr3tta
I generally think we have a really good marriage, but my wife and I never talk about si. If she asked I would try to, but she never asks. I don't bring it up myself because I don't really know what to say. Plus its a weirdly private thing to do.
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That is how I feel about it. I don't necessarily want her to get angry or talk about it. I just find it strange she doesn't acknowledge it. Maybe that is best.
For me it is a very private thing. Even from her. I always do it where no one can see. Usually on my upper thighs or ankles that are cover by socks or underwear. For me it is almost a ritual. A sort of self soothing. A way to go numb and be able to deal with awful feelings.
It has been 8 days since I last did it. Thought about it quite a few days, but I held off the urges.