I think it was a bad session. And I think it's worth talking to her so you can try to determine whether it's a fundamental personality mismatch, or something you can work through. Maybe your T has a sense of humour that isn't working for you.

The speed comment would annoy the heck out of me. Be annoyed! But do go back and tell her - I think the proof of the pudding is in how she handles your annoyance.