I think I understand what you mean, but I don't hate my mother. I had 3 sisters, One is now deceased. Out of the 4 of us, 2 were very good looking, and 2 were kind of "blah." I'm one of the "blah" ones. I have a long nose, small mouth, high cheekbones, fairly large brown eyes. It sounds like a turkey, doesn't it! LOL My mother was a beauty in her younger days. My dad was very handsome too, even as he grew older. I just didn't happen to get good genes for some reason. My younger sister and I look alot alike, and she's very pretty, but she's put together better than I am. lol It doesn't take much to make it look better - maybe a 1/4 inch shorter nose, or just a bit wider mouth. But she was HOmecoming Queen at school, while I never dated!

But I did get married and had 2 kids, who are both gorgeous, thank God.

So don't hate your Mom. Genes have a funny way of putting us together. God bless you and please take care. Hugs, Lee