Total BS on her part. You deserve more than this. Sounds like you've taken care of the physical side, which is great, but the emotional side is still troubling you.

It sounds like it could help to address the emotional side of things. Did you ever actually address the reasons why you developed the ED in the first place? Because EDs can be symptoms.

You deserve more than just being "able to cope". That sounds like a band aid, and it's a start, but it's not full healing. I'm absolutely NOT playing down your achievements in recovering when I say that, let me be clear about that!