Sorry your first session went so badly. I don't like that she seems to be jumping to conclusions. It sounds like that, or else she's trying to impress you with her "knowledge". Either way, I'm not liking her approach. I might give her another session. Are you looking to bond with her at your first meeting? Or do you mean "click"? I thought bonding with someone takes time. Like many sessions of getting to know one another. For me "clicking" with someone comes rather quickly. I see that as kind of an immediate connection of the minds or simply a feeling you get about someone that they are your kind of people. Maybe you are looking for that immediate connection?