I once had a therapist who, I felt after a time, was quietly angry with me for not responding in the way he "expected"---or, more accurately, in a way that would make him feel successful. I wonder if your t. wants to "blame" someone for not "fixing" your depression somehow-------------maybe cannot tolerate the long swim herself.
My thoughts about my former t were reinforced when a friend (my supervisor at work actually---who insisted on getting the name from me thinking I was doing so well that...) saw him and had a very bad experience.