Dear winter4me,

Your son is right, you are a generous person and you are loved.
I also empathize with you feeling left out but in no way are you the "loser".
You are showing your "grown" children great character.

May you feel the need to cry, allow the tears to fall.

It is difficult to watch grown children struggle but this is how they learn.
And we as parents also have to learn new ways of communication.
It sounds like you and your son/daughter are on a healing path.
Children inherit the best of us.
The endless sacrifices we make for our children, you deserve to be happy!

Hugs and take this private time to relax.
sincerely,
Happiedasiy