So I met these two girls yesterday with my friend, and I thought all was going well, today he tells me he asked what one of the girls thought of me, and they said that I was cute. About 2 hours later when we were getting ready to see them, he said "Oh but they also thought you're too feminine".

I really don't know what to think of this, I mean, I think of it as both good but extremely bad.

It's good because....
It means I take care of how I look
I care about how I present myself

It's bad because....
I've been told this my whole life, and I get called fag, queer, etc. at school and getting told this makes me feel even worse about myself.

The funniest (actually not funny, but very coincidental) of all this, is that I didn't think I was at all.

I admit, I am a bit feminine, albeit, if I get hurt, I'll hold it in and try not to show pain. But if my feelings are hurt, I literally feel like bursting out crying. That's how I feel now, but of course I wouldn't (I might in the bathroom though). As I'm writing this, the girls are on their way now. Oh wait, they literally just arrived. Yay -_-

So...

Please help me and give advice to make me feel better