Well... if someone has an opinion about you like that, there are also people who will see that as a good thing. People like each others because they are different, not because they want a generic person. Some people treats differences like they are a bad thing, but usually because they are young and their social intelligence is still evolving, or because they are stuck maybe because of fear of themselves being anything than generic.

Someone will like you for you, but it might not happen today. Feminine is not a bad thing. That is some weird thing "they" have taught some people. Doesn't make it the least true.