Been there done that....only was married for 33 years before I finally had enough & was able to leave....moved 2100 miles away....but unfortunately left most of my things behind when I left 6 years ago. Finally working on getting the divorce finalized. He has destroyed me financially way too much & it's time to be completely free of him.

I can relate to what you say about not missing him either. When I first left, they always said....absence makes the heart grow stronger...but it didn't it just gave me such a peace to be away from him......I knew it was over. I stood in the kitchen of my farm that first week & thought....wow, a refrig full of things that JUST I LIKE.....I don't have to worry if he likes what I buy any more......& I felt so free to figure out the me that I had lost over those 33 years & get my values back that I had compromised away for so many years.

I can relate to what a good feeling it is