Wow, good answer!! My current t and a previous one keep asking me why my mother, who was such a beeyotch, had such power in our house. I finally figured out, she had control over the men in the family. just my father and brother, but still. Tell your pappy it's not your job to make sure he still gets laid by you not making stepmom mad. Maybe say it nicer! But im kinda mad my needs were sacrificed to THAT, now that I understand.