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Originally Posted by jimi...
Well... if someone has an opinion about you like that, there are also people who will see that as a good thing. People like each others because they are different, not because they want a generic person. Some people treats differences like they are a bad thing, but usually because they are young and their social intelligence is still evolving, or because they are stuck maybe because of fear of themselves being anything than generic.
Someone will like you for you, but it might not happen today. Feminine is not a bad thing. That is some weird thing "they" have taught some people. Doesn't make it the least true.
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Originally Posted by Sumtypabroken
In my experience people who put others down usually have self-esteem problems themselves and can only be comfortable when driving others down to their level. Keep in mind that words can be said, but can only hurt us if we let them. As far as feminine and emotional goes I'll swap that for this sociopathic, severely depressed, empty shell that is me any day.
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Originally Posted by genetic
Try to remember, Helloworld18, that when people make judgments of others, they are
not revealing anything about the person whom they're judging; they are
really revealing more of themselves than anything else.
Just live your life by your deepest principles and you'll be fine. Don't ever judge
yourself; just evaluate who you are by your deep respect for yourself and consider
that as the proper way to see oneself. You'll be much stronger if you don't listen
to talk like theirs. It's really unimportant to your well-being.
Negativity can be a loading for depression. You need to steer clear of it, if possible.
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Originally Posted by bharani1008
I am surmising that you a re pretty young yet--18? If so then jimi speaks truth. It takes experience and emotional intelligence to take pleasure in the great variety of people flavors. How very dull this world would be if we were just alike. If you have access to an older group of people you may find that you are more comfortable with them. You need not stop seeing your friends but don't let that group be your only contacts. For instance there are numerous social groups on this site and the conversations are very satisfying. If you have special interests or you like to do social service you can come into contact with a variety of people you may enjoy----and who will enjoy you.
I hope you keep posting here. We'll be interested in how you get on
Cheers
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I would like to provide an update.
Apparently, they said I was too girly. I really don't know how this is, honestly. Maybe my voice is more feminine? But my friend has been the girly one, while I've been the dare devil, or so I thought. Like we went jet skiing and I told one of the girls who were driving to go faster, and when I hit the water hard multiple times I didn't complain I just said im ready to go again. While my friend was making a big deal about falling off, not only that, but he was scared if swimming because of the fish, cause he's scared of fish. When we were walking, there were spiders so I pretended to pick one up and put it on him.
Honestly, how in the world is any of that girly!?