Exactly, it was distasteful, considering my profile mentions having a cat.

I disabled the whole thing, for now. It wasn't off to any better start than those other sites.

And for what?! To have some random stranger, in his first message to me, say hey beautiful? Hmmm...wonder what he's going for.

There's better ways to meet people, at least for me there is. Thought I would check it out, for the sake of saying, yep, I looked into it. And though it's free to join, to me, it's another money grabbing scheme, if you want to upgrade, etc. I scrolled down, who had checked me out, checked out cities, profiles. Again, not my cup of tea.