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Originally Posted by mixedup_emotions
But it really strikes me each time I watch it how the men are so caring and loving towards the children - and wonder if that's a possibility in real life.
Makes me kinda sad that I haven't had that experience - in my upbringing or in my marriage.
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MUE, it is a possibility in real life and it's one of the things that has made me fight so hard for my marriage. My H has been so tender and loving with our children and really cared for them emotionally and physically. He and our D have had a rough time lately, but he has tried really hard to make things better with her and for her.
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Originally Posted by healed84
I know we all have a little dishonesty! I get that, h flat out lied to my face when I asked him about the situation a couple of months ago. I don't do well with that. I not perfect, don't claim to be but when asked a question Make it a point to be honest.
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Please know that I mean this is a loving way and I'm not being judgmental, but if you H asked you about kissing the other woman, would you tell him? There are some things that are so fearsome or shaming or stressful that people will just lie about them. My H has this knee jerk lie response sometimes when he feels really threatened. I hate it, but it was not a deal breaker once I understood where it was coming from. And again, he has asked me about my T and I have point-blank lied abut the situation.