We split bills and he has his he is responsible to pay and then he has a percentage of bills that he is supposed to pay me for that I pay out of my acct... But he rarely gives me the full amount because "he doesn't have it"... truthfully money is tight!
My portion includes paying for the laundry.... and I do the laundry... and he mows the lawn... its split... I don't mind the split...

The concert I would enjoy but I'm not dying to go... It was nice that he asked me to go...(usually he gets my son to go with him and then he thinks I won't give him a hard time because its for the kids). (whether he said he was paying for the ticket or not it would be me paying because it would be deducted from what $ he has to contribute to the bills)

I was just hoping he would see that if he can't afford to contribute his full share of the bills then he can't afford to go to the concert... but I refuse to be his mother and tell him what his responsibilities are...