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I second Ozzie about making sure you take care of yourself. Can you find a support group in your area... something for Bipolar/Depression or a group for people with loved ones and family members who suffer? You could go to these groups alone or together and I think either way could be beneficial.
It may give you ideas to help him and also help clarify your feelings as to what you want to do.
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