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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster
Oh, I see. Get the email responses with 1000 word applications, put the check mark next to "guy motivated enough to compose an essay", and delete  without reading. OK. I just did not immediately get it.
That is the only thing of all that I can understand, because I like caressing the flame of a burning candle. |
If it were me personally doing it, I'd expect a 1000 word essay to discourage a lot of people from filling your inbox with annoying stuff that they've probably sent to multiple people.
Depending on the amount of responses, either take the time to read them all, as they'd most slightly drip in rather than be a monsoon. If on the rare chance there's a lot of responses, then filter on physical, age and location parameters and then read them. If you can't be bothered to read a few 1000 word essays to find love then... It's not like you need to read the full thousand to discount somebody who sets off the wrong flags.
There's loads of kinks I can understand the theory behind but will never "get" because it's not me. If you're looking to experiment more and maybe to discover more things that you may enjoy then start with what you know you like, try to work out what it is about it you like, I.e. About the flame, and don't be afraid to explore similar things.
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Originally Posted by Spockette
Doesn't the word 'fetish' mean 'whimsical dream?'
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Erm not really. I googled the etymology and it started talking about it being to do with objects essentially. Fetish comes from latin and portugese origins. Sorry for not posting the full etymology and definition - it's fiddley on a phone
The rest of your post was cool Spockette
