[quote=UnderTheRose;3153123]From that there I would read that not as a sign of having a libido previously.
Using sex as a form of control , rather than having sex because you are turned on isn't really being 'sexual' in that 'fun/horny' kind of way Maybe you've yet to come into an actual Libido stage in your life. /quote]

Thank you for the link
I am 43 yrs old... One would think I would have come into a libido stage by now