I find myself wanting to test my T a lot. I try to just be upfront about it rather than expecting him to telepathically know what I want. He says my acting out is rather more on my sleeve than most clients - it's because I'd rather just get to the point where I get what I want than mess about waiting for him to realise.

But then I'm constantly setting little tests as well, like little traps. And often he'll fail those, but then do something else, something better.